I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. John 10:9 ESV
Wouldn’t it be strange to walk up to a house being built and find it has no door?
I recall a history field trip with my children to a re-creation of an Indian village in Alabama. As we did the walking tour, we approached a walled structure that seemed to have no door. The kids were quite puzzled, and I myself was unfamiliar with this kind of construction and not really sure what to do. It was a circular structure made of straight tree trunks standing side by side to make a near-perfect wall. The trunks were 10-12 feet tall, each sharpened to a point making them look as if a giant had planted all his pencils in the ground eraser end down. As we circled around the wall we finally came upon a way in. The design was ingenious. The circular wall spiraled inside itself so that there was no actual closing door, yet it was very secure since it was close to impossible to know where the entrance was without intense searching.
I will never forget my grandmama’s house. She never, ever locked her door. In fact, the tarnished old skeleton key stayed in the door all the time just in case she ever needed to leave for a long time and lock the house – and by long, I mean weeks. I’ve gone to her house many times and walked right in with a “Yoo-hoo! We’re here!” Sometimes I’d get a response from back in the kitchen, but other times I’d search for her like a grown-up game of hide-and-seek only to find her out back in her garden with an apron full of garden vegetables. Still other times I’d search house and yard only to determine she wasn’t home, and then I’d leave her a little note telling her I’d dropped by. Those welcoming, unlocked doors were just as important as any locked door ever has been.
Locked doors keep things out.
Unlocked doors allow entrance.
Have we gotten so used to locking our physical doors in life that we have begun to lock out others from our lives in relational, emotional, spiritual ways as well? Has technology created distance in relationships or enabled us to retreat from others and become like hermit crabs, safe in our shell and all to ourselves? Research is telling us that this i-phone generation is among the loneliest in recorded history. They have many online “friends” and “followers,” but socialize face-to-face more rarely than any generation before. Consequently, depression, suicide, and broken families are on the increase.
As children of God, we are called to be His ambassadors – His liaisons to this lonely, hurting world. How does that tie in with our focus this year on constructing our homes and lives in a way that pleases our heavenly Father? Today, let’s examine the access we allow others to our lives and how God might view our behaviors.
Jesus said, “I am the door.” As “little Christs” we are to be little doors as well. Doors that open to reveal the heart and home of Christ to the world. Doors that open and welcome others. Not self-protective doors locking out the “evil” world.
I must ask myself, is my life and home a portal through which others can come to meet the Christ? Is your life an open door?
Think through these questions honestly and allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you.
» Do you react to others receptively? Lovingly? Openly? Willing to help?
» Do you regularly invite people into your life to listen to them, encourage them, and pray for them?
» Do you invest in the lives of other women?
» Do you regularly share Jesus with people the Holy Spirit brings across your path?
» Does your home and life say to others, “Come,” and point them to Jesus?
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» Do you find yourself mainly secluded in your own home and family life?
» Do you socialize, but not broach spiritual discussions nor pray for those you encounter who need Jesus?
» Are you fearful of certain types of people? Do you allow this to keep you from being an open door to them?
If the Holy Spirit has spoken to you through this little evaluation, take a moment to journal a prayer to your Father. Your construction assignment this week as you work to build your spiritual home: Make sure you put a door in. Anything else would be unnatural. Humble yourself to be willing and obedient. Be that open door that invites others to Christ in word and deed.