6 Tips for Success for the Godly Woman
(When my church, GFBC, was doing the Rachel & Leah study, by Nicki Koziarz, this fall, I wrote some encouragement notes to the ladies that were going through the study with me. One of those notes developed into this blog post.)
In the study we took a deep look into the lives of Rachel & Leah and learned how to combat comparisons in our own lives. The last week topic or truth was “Let the success of others encourage you, not discourage you.”
So how do you measure success?
Do you measure it by the worlds standards of Fame and Fortune? Do you let the success you see around you discourage you in pursuing your own desires and goals? Has your road to success become your idol? We are all constantly taking out a measuring stick and measuring our lives up against those around us. The problem is, we use the world’s standards as our measuring stick instead of God’s standards. Here are just a few things to remember when you are looking at your measuring stick:
- God already has a successful plan mapped out for your life; you just have to be obedient and follow it. When King David was dying he told his son, Solomon, “Do what God tells you. Walk in the paths he shows you: Follow the life-map absolutely, keep an eye out for the signposts, his course for life set out in the revelation to Moses; then you’ll get on well in whatever you do and wherever you go.” (1 Kings 2:3 The Message) We have to do things God’s way not the world’s. God’s course is always the best, and we will succeed when we follow His plan.
- You have to start somewhere. Don’t forget it is your journey. Not your neighbors’, friends’ or the person that is doing exactly what you want to succeed in doing. Zechariah 4:10 says “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” If God has called you to do something, don’t be discouraged when you see others succeeding more rapidly in the same task. Their journey may have a different purpose in God’s master plan. You will never progress on your journey unless you start. God rejoices when you take the steps of obeying and following His plan.
- You have to stay focused on the Goal and know that God is the source of your success. Don’t let the success of others remove your focus from what God has called you to accomplish. Paul says in Philippians 3:13-14 “Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus.” Don’t look back – keep your eyes focused forward and know that God is the source of “every good and perfect gift (James 1:17)”
- Let the success of others spur you on in your journey, not hinder you. “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” (Hebrews 10:24) “This saying is trustworthy. I want you to insist on these things, so that those who have believed God might be careful to devote themselves to good works. These are good and profitable for everyone.” ( Titus 3:8 ) “Therefore, since we also have such a large cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us lay aside every hindrance and the sin that so easily ensnares us. Let us run with endurance the race that lies before us.” (Hebrews 12:1) Look in Hebrews 11 to see all that have come before us, to encourage us in our walk of Faith. We can see how God used each one in his plan, but don’t stop there, look around you and let the success of others encourage you to succeed.
- God has gifted you with all you need to succeed. God gifted you with talents when he formed you in the womb. When you became a believer, He gifted you with a Spiritual gift. He has already equipped you with all you need to bring Him Glory and become a success in His eyes.
- Your Ultimate Goal is for your success to bring Glory to God. Success is knowing that you have done everything you can do, both in thoughts and actions, to become the best that you are capable of becoming. Colossians 3:17 says “And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” When you pull out that measuring tape to measure your success, ask yourself, “Am I doing everything I possibly can to bring glorify to God?”
So throw away the measuring stick with the world’s ideas of success, and pick up your Bible and study God’s idea of success.