Happy Valentine’s Day!

Love is not what our society says it is. Love is not sex. Love is not romance. Love is not just a feeling. Love is not celebrating Valentine’s Day with candlelight or getting flowers or chocolates or gifts.

Love is a person. God is love. And we know that we are His and that we truly know how to love when we can treat those around us with with tender, loving care and offer them our unconditional love and acceptance. Not a love that is earned. Not a love based on keeping accounts. Not a love based on what they deserve. But a love that dies to self to do what is right for those we truly love. Not a love that gives in with weakness when it should hold the bar high. And not a love that has unreasonable expectations, nor one that badgers and degrades either.

We have a lot to learn about love. Let’s go to the source.

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. 10 In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. 11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

13 By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. 14 And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. 15 Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. 16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. 17 By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. 19 We love because he first loved us. 20 If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. 21 And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.”

1 John 4